[Schopenhauer] Insights and life advice on life? Pain, happiness, loneliness, death, hate, justice.

 The biggest hardship in life is that we didn't try to get it. It is that they did not jump or clear obstacles to get something and did not 00.  It was the identity of suffering that was interrupted by words. The last goal cannot be achieved by repeating the fruitless days. Great life is made through invisible growth.

Schopenhauer

※ Why do you think your life shouldn't be hard?

A short article or proverbial saying containing the truth of life is called apolism. Schopenhauer's philosophy was a person who had a profound influence on Nietzsche's philosophy, Hesse's Freud, and Karl Jung's psychology. He wrote 11 books during his lifetime, and eight of them were published during his lifetime. It is said that he exchanged letters with numerous people, including Goethe, and wrote a diary almost every day for more than 10,000 pages.  Schopenhauer is called a pessimist philosopher, and although his language is sharp and toxic, his view of the world is not negative or pessimistic. It felt too realistic.

Rather, I could get a lot of comfort and strength from his words, saying that life is pain and pain stems from obsession, and therefore that you can get out of pain by abandoning obsession. His philosophy tells modern people who live in misery, trapped in the idea of wanting to be relieved, how to live to be truly happy. It's been 150 years since he died, but we still remember him to this day and try to find the answer to life in the writings he left behind. Why? Neither those who know Schopenhauer nor those who don't will have the same idea.

1. Everyone dreams of climbing their own mountain. 

Everyone dreams of climbing their own mountain, but the joy of climbing is when they conquer the summit. But the best joy was the moment to climb the rugged mountain. The harder the road is, the more exciting it is. If you think that hardship in life is thoughtless, you can't be more desolate than that, and we have to climb the mountain. Youth itself is a huge mountain. You must do your best to climb the mountain before it becomes flat. Those who climb their own mountains in their youth will experience the richness of the mountains in old age.

Every man dreams of climbing his own mountain. Some people become ill because their aspirations are too excessive. Climbing a mountain isn't really that difficult. Sometimes you fail just because you don't know the right way. The more obsessed you are with success, the more envious you are of the success of others. At the end of the period, rumors spread and slander begin. In this way, you never reach the top of the mountain faster than that. Even those who try to jump at once without considering their abilities and physical strength do not succeed. 

It may be faster than others temporarily, but it lags over time. If you want to climb a mountain, you shouldn't overdo it than your ability or physical strength. You should look at the top and move silently without looking away. It's such an ordinary way, but this is the best way to conquer the mountain safely. Life is hard because I believe that economic success is the fundamental factor of happiness, and I do not deny that the feeling of success helps me enjoy life. 

For example, an artist who had little presence in his youth can be happy by being recognized for his talent after middle age. It does not deny that you can enjoy happiness with the power of money. However, there is a limit to the happiness bought with money. It is clear that success is one factor paid to call happiness, but if you sacrifice anything else for success, you buy success for a higher price than you deserve. Whose challenge would be the most glorious? He who has never failed and climbed the top of the mountain has no frustration. There is no glory. Therefore, whenever he fails, he who quietly wakes up again is honored.

This is because he has a buried wound engraved on him that he woke up from frustration, and there is a pupil who knows where the end of despair is. The biggest hardship in life is that we didn't try to get it. It is said that they did not try to jump over obstacles or clean them up to get something, and that was the identity of hardship that blocked our future days. Use patience as your garment. You'll be ashamed to take off your clothes.  If you don't lose patience, you won't be ashamed of yourself. Use your faith as your style.

You will not suffer from the hunger of the body, and no human being is as unhappy as a human who has lost faith. Those who fail and fall behind are usually those who lack patience or have no faith and have been shaken around. Don't mistake that time will always wait for us, and don't expect the day to arrive at your destination, no matter how lazy you walk. The day is not worthwhile if you don't do your best day by day. The last goal cannot be achieved by repeating the days that are not worthwhile. A great life is made by throwing up invisible growth. 

2. The best way to distinguish an enemy from a comrade.

Many people mistake adoration and flattery for friendship. Even though this is a insult to friendship, many people want to follow and flatter as a line of confirming friendship. If so, Lim's intimacy with the other person in his or her life is not a personality of friendship. He wants control. A real house does not need the help of a power of status. Compliments and envy alone do not secure my rights, nor are they given to me. If you don't want to be fat, you can do the same as the one who rules me. That's the quick way.

There should be no hesitation or restraint here. The psychology of wanting to be controlled and the perverse desire to dominate are enough. In my experience, the best way to distinguish an enemy from a comrade is by hearsay. Do you tell others about my misfortunes? You can distinguish between enemies and comrades depending on whether you don't. In human relations, money is a window into the truth. In many cases, you lose a friend by refusing to lend money, but in more cases, you lose a friend by lending money.

The best friend is a friend who is infinitely close to the enemy. If I have a friend who advises me when I need advice and threatens me when I'm arrogant, it's comparable to receiving a huge inheritance from my parents. The special character of man is duality. People who need advice hate interference, and those who need comfort hate sympathy. As a result, history as we know it has been born. The history of each nation cannot be found except for the war of health and baran.

This is because consolation and advice have never been recorded in history. Peaceful days are recorded as days when you were conceited, and times when you ate and drank your fill are often abused as luxury and pleasure. What does this mean? This means that humans themselves pursued antagonism. For humans, peace is the height of boredom. Happy moments are remembered as tiresome boredom, and the days when hunger and thirst reached the threshold of death are also the pride of heroes who confirmed their strong humanity. History is a record of individual time coming together.

3. The reason why we are comforted by trivial things is because we suffer from trivial things.

The reason why we are comforted by trivial things is that we suffer from trivial things, and the reason why there are very few people who say they know God is that the distance between form and truth is incomparably far. If you want to get your hands on happiness, your goal in life should not be happiness. You have to pursue something other than happiness. Some people say I don't want happiness alone. It is all a lie that we are dedicated to the progress of mankind, the development of civilization and art, the happiness of others.

Their hard work is an effort to satisfy the greed of the individual. Happiness is not obtained by means. It is like a sound of water obtained by chance in the middle of the road when you practice toward a certain goal. If the word happiness is engraved at the end of the flag, it cannot be true happiness. Somewhere to get the flag of happiness. If he is practicing something with someone, his life will not enjoy true happiness.

4. If you don't want to be sick, you have to be close to the pain.

The power to make relationships with people smoother comes from continuous friendship. Friendship is calm and consistent. If it changes, it is not friendship. If you're excited, it's not friendship either. What changes is calculation and what excites is love. My friend is there and I'm here. As the friend is there, the relaxation and values of mind that I have work to do here is the definition of friendship. Friendship is a scale that never knows when the scale will change, and a betrayal that comes after the excitement subsides. We must know how to distinguish kindness from friendship. If kindness is an admiration for his character, it is a commitment to the soul of a friend.

The admiration disappears at the same time as he finds his shadow, but the devotion becomes more mournful by looking at it. Friendship is satisfied with the happiness of a friend if you are kindly satisfied with the other person's appreciation. Friendship has two souls. A man who has the soul of friendship is a man who has two souls. When one soul collapses, another soul beside him lifts him up. Under no circumstances will they fall together. This is why life has presented friendship to humans. Friendship makes man wiser than any other emotion. Only friendship shows the world of humans and things and tells us humanly justification, but life and method. 

Before I think of the wisest way to live my life, I have to check what I should get close to and what I love. This is because the desire to live for what I love rather than the wish to live can feel greater and greater to humans. Friendship should not be a lofty encounter on the surface. It should be a stimulus to each other's inner side and a promoter to work hard. A friendship that does not advance is indolence and indulgence. Internal progress begins with intense soul agitation. Friendship is an alarm clock that awakens a friend's soul.  A friendship that is not faithful to its role is more of a narcissism on its own.

The reason why I envy the friendship of patience, but I repeat wasteful encounters in my daily life is because I am afraid of the soul that wakes up. I am afraid that my soul, awakened from a long sleep, will despair at the sight of myself stained with numbness, ignorance, and laziness. If you want life to remain a blessing to you, you must love it first. If you want to be close, you have to approach first and show your mind. If you don't want to be sick, you have to get close to the pain first. If you love me, you have to be close to the way my soul wants me to be. 

5. Many of human misfortunes are caused by not being able to be alone.

Sociability is inversely proportional to intelligence, and if you are told that a person is very unsociable, you mean an outstanding person with great characteristics. An intelligent person has two advantages from solitude. The first gets time to be with oneself, and the second gets the freedom not to be with others. Relationships involve a lot of compulsion and distress risks. Many of human misfortunes are caused by not being able to be alone. Sociability is a personality that leads to moral distancing and contact with intellectually stupid or unreasonable. It is dangerous and harmful.

Being unsociable means that you have so much that you don't need to socialize, that you are happy in itself. This is because all human suffering stems from companionship. After health, peace of mind, the most important factor of happiness, becomes dangerous due to socializing. Without solitude, mankind would not have existed until now. Just as abstaining from food makes your body healthy, abstaining from socializing makes your soul healthy. The problem is that humans were not born out of solitude. Humans were not alone when they were born in this world. 

It has parents, siblings, and was born into the possession of the community of the state and society. Perhaps solitude is the result of experience and ideas, not human nature. What would you gain from socializing with me and others? In order to socialize with people, one has no choice but to bring out the lowest and meanest part of one's nature, that is, everyday and mean. A community literally must have common values and homogeneity, and in order for all humans to reach the same level, the mental level of the group must be adjusted to the stupidest.

Therefore, sociality does not raise me to the high level of others, but becomes an act of lowering me to the lowest level of others. The most convenient way to survive in a community is to imitate a high-class personality rather than educate a low-class personality as a high-class personality. Isolation and solitude may be the luxurious emotions created by the human soul, who is tired of this social composition. 

6. The majority is just a large number, not a large number. 

There is no truth in life. Life is just a silly fairy tale, so I'm not disappointed. The world says I'm wrong, but it's a world that says so, and in my eyes, it's all full of mistakes and errors. The things that are turned into errors and falsehoods are true, and the things that are exaggerated by divinity are real errors. There is no right or wrong. The majority is just a large number, not a large number. I object to the prejudice that I am powerless. 

I won't follow you no matter what. If it does not listen to morality, and if this is my limit, I will teach you that it is only the consciousness of the child that determines the limit. I won't say I know what I don't know. But I know I don't know, and there's nothing I don't know. Humans only experience themselves in the end. I wouldn't have one. All of this is in me that a new name and a new evaluation and a new constitutional amendment are needed to create a new life. Death comes at the very end of his life. 

Just as a child is forced to grow into an adult, death comes to us. This is because our reason always precedes our reality and more impulses are engulfed. In other words, our reality does not satisfy our reason. 

7. Nothing is more certain than "death" in life.  

Death comes when you think it's too early. Most people think like this. But this is a delusion. Happiness requires sacrifice. Without loss, there is no joy, and without despair, there is no sense of truth. Pain and pleasure are the images of two snakes that bite each other's tails. The pain of one side begins, and the more severe the pain, the stronger the power to bite the tail of the Seorok. Life and death are the same, and death comes faster for those who are obsessed with life, and rather, life unfolds a longer time for those who wait for death. 

Nothing is more certain than death in an obscure life. There is no clearer premise than the fact that death comes to us all. The clear fact that death is approaching is more clear than the natural fact that today will go and tomorrow will come, than the fact that it is witnessed with eyes that darkness will come when the sun sets, and the parts expect that a warm spring day will begin when winter comes. However, even if one prepares for tomorrow and lights up the living room in preparation for the darkness, and organizes thick fur clothes in anticipation of spring, he does not make any preparations or plans for death that may come tomorrow, in a moment, or next spring. 

We must always think of death. We must realize that that is why life is allowed to live. We are born to die. This is the only preparation for death we can do. We must remember that trying to live a better life, knowing that we face death confidently and have no fear, regret, or worry, and that a better life protects us from death.

This allows us to accept our fate more resolutely about death. Because fear of death reminds me of emptiness and darkness. And the reason we fear emptiness and darkness is because we don't really look back on our lives scattered throughout the conductor. Physical death is a city that destroys the perception of the body and time in space, but it does not break the foundation of life, that is, the special friendship established world and existence.

Therefore, we should be grateful for the pain that death has presented us. Reason is useless to those who do not know pain. Pain is an essential process for all living things, including humans. It is the only way that will never disappear, and there is death at the end. Death is a powerful nature that completes us. 

8. It's best to sleep when you hate yourself.

After the day, I have time to reflect on myself quietly. The feelings I get from looking back on the past day are my incompetence and anger toward others, and eventually I get depressed again. I'm angry at my limitations, and my displeasure rises with resentment against others. That mind keeps me trapped in the dark. It all comes from fatigue. When you are tired of life, it is impossible to reflect on yourself. If you try to reflect on yourself, you will inevitably fall into the trap of depression. When I'm tired, I'm tired of reflecting on myself, looking back on the past, and writing a diary is painful.

When life is lively, active with joy, or immersed in something, you don't look back on what's past, or you don't pledge or plan to do this again in the future. Reflecting is a sign that you are looking back on what has passed, that you are pathetic of yourself, that you are hating others, and that you need rest in your soul and body. Reflection is self-cooperation, and when humans reflect on themselves, they look for any number of cases to reflect on. When the moon does not cheer up, humans recklessly reflect on themselves and reflect on themselves. Rather, I would rather go to bed without thinking. Prayer and meditation are not helpful either. Eating well, sleeping well, and continuing early is the secret to overcoming cooperation. 

8. It grows only through questions.

A hard and fleeting life runs like a wheel. Why do we always live? What do you live for? What is a life worth living? How should I live in the future? Humans try to obtain the meaning and value obtained from reasons and purposes through questions. Philosophy is a question of why humans live and what to do to realize the reason. Philosophy is all about asking yourself what the ultimate goal is before you act for the ultimate goal and giving an answer. #Happiness is like getting a piece of water by accident. Human misery comes from not being alone. Death, pain. Hate, justice/thank you.